A rebound relationship is one where you (or your partner if they're the one rebounding) are still affected by a previous significant relationship. Does this mean the break up cannot be saved anymore in view of the rebound relationship? So the hope of getting back together is smashed? Dun lose hope yet, rebound relationship is not going to shoot your hope down.
You will first need to understand the cause for a rebound relationship to happen. Getting involved in a rebound relationship can help your ex to move on instead of bothering them with the frustrations and pains of a break up. It helps them to move on from a real love.
When real love existed in a past relationship, the break up can be repaired. If both of you have real and true love for each other, there is always a good possibility of getting a lover back despite a rebound relationship.
When your ex is dating someone, she may think of the cause of the break up that was founded on real love.
Your ex will tend to choose someone that is of different characteristic to you. Hence if you are a 'nice decent quiet guy', she will probably be hanging out with an 'active, energetic outspoken guy'.
It is not a bad thing if your ex choose something different as it takes time to develop the interest compared to what she was already comfortable with. The tendency of her mind and heart for you still remains when she finds something she dislikes with the new guy she is dating. The wonderful time you shared with you ex out of true love will not disappear easily. You may want to find out what was lacking in you that she is looking for. This may be a good time to reflect and improve yourself.
You dun have to be unduly worried over her rebound relationship. She will discover more and more flaws and weaknesses exposed from the new guy over time. After some time, she may understand the dislikes for you may not be too bad compared to the one that she is trying out with. Of course you would need to have improved yourself during the period of her rebound relationship so that she is convinced of her decision to get back to you seeing the changes you have made. Getting a lover back is realizing soon.
This shows that leaving your ex alone even if she may get into a rebound relationship is not a bad thing. As she develops and move on, she will be reminded of the happy memories with you. When the time comes to be back with you, receive her back with open arms and dun mention about her rebound relationship failure. This is not
the time to play hard to get please.
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