Are you dating online and not meeting the women you crave and would like to meet
I know what you are going through and it can be a lonely place when you aren't getting the results you desire. In this situation you have to hang in there and never give up!
Tip #1
Test your replies from what you write in your first and second emails. Save your emails in a file and use the ones that get the most replies as templates...everyone is unique though.
Tip#2
You must comment on personal things she has written in her profile. To show you have made the effort to find out something about her.
And remember, nothing works 100% of the time.
I still scratch my head when a profile ignores my interest...and I match her criteria well...go figure.
I've just finished dating a lady and am back in the internet dating game...
And loving it...one thing about using online dating sites is that whenever you find yourself single, you can be comfortable in the knowledge that it is only a matter of time before you meet someone else.
Or just enjoy dating a few different ladies until you do...
It's the most efficient / effective way to date that I'm aware of...
There is a LOT of women using online dating sites. This is good news for us healthy single men who don't like hanging out in smoky bars and clubs.
Attention!
I'm about to reveal a killer profile tip which I'm certain I've never revealed before.
I was aware of it but never really made the effort to use it.
As I was preparing a new profile name, photo and text to go back online, I decided to make the effort.
The results have been pretty darn good, and I've only been back online for four weeks or so!
It's got the type of women I'm interested in meeting, to contact me straight away.
No messing about with virtual kisses and then me having to pay for the contact.
They contacted me and sent their mobile number with the email!
Yehaa! I like that. :-]
Are you ready, let's look at it,
Here it is;
Men's Killer Profile Tip!
When editing or making up your profile, pretend you are a copywriter.
By this I mean imagine you have been paid by a company to write a profile convincing a client to be interested in that company's goods.
So to do that you need to tell the reader this;
'WHATS IN IT FOR THEM!'
Read profiles of men in your area and age group to scope out the competition.
Notice how often they use the word ' I.'
So you'll see they are focusing on themselves, instead of the reader.
This is good for you, so that your profile will stand out from the crowd.
For example;
Instead of writing, 'I love going to the beach for a swim.'
Write it this way, 'Do you enjoy going to the beach for a walk and a swim?'
Subtle difference, but it works!
Instead of this, 'I like to cook.'
Write it, 'Do you like your man to cook for you while having a glass of wine together.'
Get the idea?
So why not edit your profile and delete as many ' I's ' as you can.
Or set up a new one on a different site and see the results...
You will notice the difference quickly.
Focus on what you think the type of women that interests YOU, would like to read and do.
I think you get the picture with this and I won't bother with endless examples.
This truly is a KILLER tip!
Try it out and good luck to you!
So instead of writing the word 'I,' rephrase it and use the word 'you.'
Simple but effective and gets good results.
Until next time and more dating tips, keep smiling...
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Saturday, October 23, 2010
The Top Five Mistakes Men Make Dating Online!
Here are the top five mistakes and how to avoid them with dating women online!
Mistake#1. Having a Boring, Average Profile!
Common mistake guys make.
You have to put some decent time and effort into the profile.
You MUST shine above the masses.
Tip one is to have an interesting / different profile with some humour.
Tip two is to have nothing negative in your profile. And a good photo!
Mistake#2. Placing too High a Value On a Potential Date!
This is another instinctive mistake made when first starting out.
Your mind plays tricks on you and you put the lady on a pedestal before even meeting her!
Particularly if you haven't had a date for a while.
Tip one, Treat every potential date as an opportunity for YOU to check HER out and see if you fancy her!
Tip two, NEVER expect to meet the love of your life on a first date.
This way you will never be disappointed and sometimes very pleased.
Mistake#3. Not Meeting Quickly Enough!
Did this myself for far too long.
The longer you leave it before you meet, the less likely it is to happen.
So forget about emailing for months and getting all worked up over email.
As soon as possible, meet for coffee and a chat to see if you like each other.
This will save you a lot of time and energy.and disappointments.
Tip one, Ask for a coffee date in the first two weeks of emails.
Tip two, if she doesn't agree to meet, move on and don't worry about it.
There are plenty more.
Mistake#4. Emailing Interstate and Overseas Profiles!
I did this as well when I first started dating online.
It's tempting to do but is a complete waste of your time, energy and focus.
Unless you are rich and have a lot of spare time, don't bother with interstate and overseas profiles.
What's the odds of you ever really hooking up?
Very little.
Why would they be better than someone local?
Tip one, only focus and contact women in your immediate area.
Tip two, keep it down to 100 km radius from your home. This will
Keep your expenses and time travels down.
Mistake#5. Not Calling the Meeting Cafe!
This is more important than it sounds. Women like to be lead by a decisive man. So call the cafe, time and date.
If she can't make it when you suggest, reschedule to suit her.
She will get the impression you are not timid and are comfortable making decisions.this is good.
Tip one, make the first date during a week night. This will suggest you have a life and are busy on the weekend.
Tip two, be relaxed at the coffee date. Don't mention past partners or that you haven't dating anyone for a long time. Just have some fun and BE happy.
Avoiding these five mistakes will save you a lot of time, money, energy and focus with online dating. They will prevent you from quitting before you start getting the results you desire and deserve.
Have fun and many happy seductions..
Mistake#1. Having a Boring, Average Profile!
Common mistake guys make.
You have to put some decent time and effort into the profile.
You MUST shine above the masses.
Tip one is to have an interesting / different profile with some humour.
Tip two is to have nothing negative in your profile. And a good photo!
Mistake#2. Placing too High a Value On a Potential Date!
This is another instinctive mistake made when first starting out.
Your mind plays tricks on you and you put the lady on a pedestal before even meeting her!
Particularly if you haven't had a date for a while.
Tip one, Treat every potential date as an opportunity for YOU to check HER out and see if you fancy her!
Tip two, NEVER expect to meet the love of your life on a first date.
This way you will never be disappointed and sometimes very pleased.
Mistake#3. Not Meeting Quickly Enough!
Did this myself for far too long.
The longer you leave it before you meet, the less likely it is to happen.
So forget about emailing for months and getting all worked up over email.
As soon as possible, meet for coffee and a chat to see if you like each other.
This will save you a lot of time and energy.and disappointments.
Tip one, Ask for a coffee date in the first two weeks of emails.
Tip two, if she doesn't agree to meet, move on and don't worry about it.
There are plenty more.
Mistake#4. Emailing Interstate and Overseas Profiles!
I did this as well when I first started dating online.
It's tempting to do but is a complete waste of your time, energy and focus.
Unless you are rich and have a lot of spare time, don't bother with interstate and overseas profiles.
What's the odds of you ever really hooking up?
Very little.
Why would they be better than someone local?
Tip one, only focus and contact women in your immediate area.
Tip two, keep it down to 100 km radius from your home. This will
Keep your expenses and time travels down.
Mistake#5. Not Calling the Meeting Cafe!
This is more important than it sounds. Women like to be lead by a decisive man. So call the cafe, time and date.
If she can't make it when you suggest, reschedule to suit her.
She will get the impression you are not timid and are comfortable making decisions.this is good.
Tip one, make the first date during a week night. This will suggest you have a life and are busy on the weekend.
Tip two, be relaxed at the coffee date. Don't mention past partners or that you haven't dating anyone for a long time. Just have some fun and BE happy.
Avoiding these five mistakes will save you a lot of time, money, energy and focus with online dating. They will prevent you from quitting before you start getting the results you desire and deserve.
Have fun and many happy seductions..
Online Dating Secrets
There is a simple online dating secret that can save you a lot of time and energy!
This will prevent you from losing interest and focus on meeting women online.
This will save you money and heartache.
OK, OK, what is it you ask?
Here it is for FREE, to you from Mick Jones, Author of 'How To Meet Women On The Internet'
When I first started dating online I made a BIG mistake. I emailed contacts I had met for MONTHS before meeting them.
This was not good.
Why?
Because it's a waste of time...
Here is the secret;
You MUST meet your lady as soon as possible after contacting them!
I recommend no more than two weeks or four emails from first reply.
This prevents you from losing momentum and building up high expectations of the lady contact.
What's the point of spending time, energy and focus on someone you haven't actually met?
Believe me, it can be disappointing meeting someone you imagined was perfect to find them not suitable for you after six weeks of emails.
So the key is to meet them QUICKLY, so that you can qualify her and meet again if it's on and move on quickly and happily if it's not.
This enables you to use your time and energy more effectively, meet more contacts and have more success.
It also increases your odds of meeting someone suitable to get involved with a whole lot quicker.
So never forget, dating is a numbers game and you need to be active.
Don't get caught up in email novels before you meet. Keep it short and funny to create mystic and compel her to want to meet you.
That's the only secret I'm revealing in this article! :-]
For our Free Newsletter and e-book on Online Dating Secrets, go here to check it out...
This will prevent you from losing interest and focus on meeting women online.
This will save you money and heartache.
OK, OK, what is it you ask?
Here it is for FREE, to you from Mick Jones, Author of 'How To Meet Women On The Internet'
When I first started dating online I made a BIG mistake. I emailed contacts I had met for MONTHS before meeting them.
This was not good.
Why?
Because it's a waste of time...
Here is the secret;
You MUST meet your lady as soon as possible after contacting them!
I recommend no more than two weeks or four emails from first reply.
This prevents you from losing momentum and building up high expectations of the lady contact.
What's the point of spending time, energy and focus on someone you haven't actually met?
Believe me, it can be disappointing meeting someone you imagined was perfect to find them not suitable for you after six weeks of emails.
So the key is to meet them QUICKLY, so that you can qualify her and meet again if it's on and move on quickly and happily if it's not.
This enables you to use your time and energy more effectively, meet more contacts and have more success.
It also increases your odds of meeting someone suitable to get involved with a whole lot quicker.
So never forget, dating is a numbers game and you need to be active.
Don't get caught up in email novels before you meet. Keep it short and funny to create mystic and compel her to want to meet you.
That's the only secret I'm revealing in this article! :-]
For our Free Newsletter and e-book on Online Dating Secrets, go here to check it out...
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